BETTER AND HAPPY LIFE BLOGS BY DR.PRIYA SHARMA

IS YOUR LIFE BETTER AND HAPPIER!

 

 

HOLA! ALL,

LIFE IS BETTER WITH THINKING PROCESS THAT SHOULD BE VERY COMFORTABLE AND SELF MAKING INSTEAD OF THINKING ALL THE TIME ABOUT PEOPLE.NEVER FOCUS ON THEIR NEGATIVE ,DEROGATORY REMARK.PUT ALL THE ISSSUES IN YOUR LIFE ASIDE,DO WHATEVER YOU WANT TO DO.THINGS THAT YOU LOVE THE MOST WILL ATTRACT YOUR HAPPINESS

WHEN YOU WILL DO SOMETHING THAT YOU ALWAYS WANTED TO DO,YOU WILL BE HAPPY AUTOMATICALLY

Humanity :what does it denote?

Hey !you lovely ones. How is all? All good?  

Many times we discuss about humanity's definitions.improving society, changing everything, eradicating poverty, de employing corruption, serving people, helping friends, doing our duties sincerely. 

 Well all the things mentioned above are true to the best. But what about true humanity. Yes!. No humanity is greater than becoming humans towards your lovable ones. Many times things are not perfect and we keep on doing and thinking about the things and people. What about your lovable ones. 

Giving your precious time is very important especially for your loved ones. The one's who truly deserve your attention. NO HUMANITY IS GREATER THAN GIVING TIME TO YOUR SPECIAL ONES. IGNORANCE is the biggest problem in today's world. 

We focus more on what to achieve, what to reject and how to impress impactfully. 

Nothing is possible without the constant support if your loved ones so please don't forget them while counting the stars dont forget your whole universe. 

Do comment your views on humanity as nowadays time of an individual needs real attention to be directed towards your lovable ones who really needs your humanity. 

WHAT HURTS YOU?

When things and your lovable person or people that you trust the most  don't act according to your wishes and desires, don't get hurt, acceptence is the key. Accept that things are like that.

Failure is not permanent, getting poor marks or any kind of breakup or inferior remarks of people don't define your success or failure. What is success? Success is to live in the present ,enjoy the present and stop thinking about past -future .see things as they are if someone has scolded you or cheated you or laughed at your weakness that doesnt mean your life has ended.

Accept that people are like that only they are not perfect too. Can you fulfill somebody's  all expectations .no right. Then don't expect unnecessary things from them they are not gods. How can they know what hurts you? Everybody in this word has their way of taking things and unique thought processes. How can they know that you were hurt from them or their actions? Are these people too imp, To think about? Why do we give so much imp to criticiser's or people that hate us?  Think about it!

 Accept that this person teases you cheated you or abused you or criticised you becaus he/ she is like that only .its their nature their upbringing. It can be someone going from a rough face of life and that person is not telling you but he or she is angry at you. Somebody is not perfect with you because everything is not perfect in their lives too. They are sad and disappointed. And finding ways to push their anger out by showing Ill behaviour to you. Accept and let it go. Stay positive be happy this is success in life. Dont ignore but maintain a little distance from the person who is hurting you. You will be happy.
 Things are not permanent. Everything is temporary. Today you fight tomorrow you laugh with the same. Today you cry because of failure tomorrow you forget what happened.

That means the things that are hurting you today tomorrow they have no meaning .suppose you have three years of bachelor degree you meet so many people. And think about somany according to their behaviour and be happy and sad for today now tell me. After thEsE 3 years someone will be married ,somebody will be doing some job AND Somebody business. Then at that time the hatredness or heaviness if heart or scoldings
Will it matter after 4 years. The answer will be no. Why wasting your emotions today. If someone is OKAY with you fine ,if someone or conditions are notFINE right now. Then say I accept. Its fine too. And be happy! 

DEFINITION OF LIFE

Hola friends!

    How is all going? Life ,a four letter word is  a journey of good and bad experiences,an ocean of emotions, struggling and hardships,stress and anxiety,Worries and tensions,laughter and rains, nature and cure, friends and family, fantasy and reality, sweetness and rudeness, calmness and suffocation and what not.
           
        But is it life all about. these are just part and parcels of this beautiful and wonderful life. Life that gives pain as well as cures.
With every bad experience comes a better tomorrow and a better version of an old you.

Most of the people gets indulged in it so well that they completly forget themselves and get deeply throbbed into these situations and onto what happened, how happened and should not have happened.
   
Means to say people live there lives not by living literally but more by drowning in this ocean. Well, most of them, includes all, ofcourse me too. Nobody is an exception to this. We all keep on thinking about our past events that definitely was impactful either ways. It can be too good or in 90percent case too bad and cold enough to breathe properly. And ofcourse the future fantasies that are always there to throb us like what is going to happen after this month or after this college, school, job, marriage and so on.

           Simply life is to live properly, means to live literally with what you have right now not with the future fantasies or people who acc to you and  make you happy, yes maybe in your dreams they can make you happy (pun intended). Live your life ,breathe this moment, enjoy this moment, laugh at this moment. Life is too short to think so much about the upcoming and bygone things. Only one person can show us the way to our life that is a mirror, yes ofcourse the mirror that has your reflection. Only you can change your life. Nobody else can. So buck up, forget the past, remember the current and laugh out Rolling till the sadness disappears my dear friends. 

HAPPINESS :WHERE DOES IT LIE?

Hello lovely people!    how are you?

       today's topic is happiness that is lacking unfortunately in today's era, where people are all the time running behind their goals objectives and AimS but they do forget the simple thing that the most important thing in the world is to be happy and happiness contains satisfaction with satisfaction comes the pleasure and with pleasure comes a restful sleep basically happiness is the thing that is completely contrary to stress anxiety and tensions.

But where does it lie ,for some people happiness is something that is completely related to their goals basically professional goals, all the time people are running behind the professional goals for  how to become successful or to become  rich and so and so .in finding these  problems solutions people just lack behind a lot of happiness ,a lot of peace and lot of satisfaction from their face and heart

           So what do you people think what is the meaning of happiness in your life for me I would say happiness is something that is related to small little things in life for instance we think that happiness  is connected with big efforts and big results but happiness lies in small little things of daily life routine suppose you have made a beautiful dress, you are good in tailoring or you have made a beautiful drawing or painting any activity that you always used to love in your childhood would make you feel happier. 

So basically what is the meaning of happiness will be best defined when you see in your past in your childhood days where you used to love ice creams and be happy where you used to eat something very tasty according to your taste Buds and you used to be happy this is funny but all about happiness.


If you think that you will become happy when you will get rich or you will become very successful and then you will become happy then you are going into a very wrong way. you are following a wrong path because god knows whenever success has to come it will come but when it has not been planned in your destiny to come for things to be happen, god knows why but the people start becoming saddened and they become too rude and frustrated with their lives just because they are not right or just because they are not successful or they have not achieve that particular aim in their lives ,that they have made, to be a mark of happiness .thus the biggest problem in everybody's life is the thought process that happiness is all about success all about achieving their goals and all about achieving love in their lives through their girlfriends and boyfriends
We need to change the attitude and the thought process of what happiness is all about many people do not understand what happiness means so basically we need to understand that the small little things we do in our daily life and the small little happiness that we spread and which reflects on  people's face will make you happy more than anything in this world because if it would not be like that then people who were so successful would not have gone to  some spiritual Gurus and Guides to let them relieve their tension zone stresses ,after getting so much of success in life. Uneasy lies the head that wears a Crown that's true to the best of everybody's knowledge but nothing is wrong in that too till you understand that crowns are always not about happiness these are just achievements.  that is my point . do comment your point of view too because different people have different experiences in life and they do have different and unique things to express. your expression is very important so do comment .what do you think about your happiness ?how successful you have been in getting happiness in your life?

RELIEVING FROM STRESS AND TENSIONS

VERY GOOD MORNING TO ALL.HOLA! HOW IS EVERYTHING OUT THERE? SO LETS DISCUSS ABOUT THE STRESS,ANXIETIES,TENSIONS THAT LEADS TO DEPRESSIVE STATE OF MIND.WHEN A PLANT IS ruining AND NOT GIVING FRESH LEAVES THAT DOESN’T MEAN ITS RUINED FOREVER.ALRIGHT!WE  NEED TO LOOK AT THE ROOT CAUSE OF OUR DISAPPOINTMENTS.SUPPOSE YOUR SON AFTER COMING HOME FROM SCHOOLS DOESN’T LOOK IN A VERY  MOOD .

WHAT CAN BE THE REASON? HMM.YES,THE REASON IS GIVING TOO MUCH IMPORTANCE TO THE EXTERNAL FACTORS .EXTERNAL PEOPLE AND THEIR CONDUCT ,THEIR SAYINGS,THEIR JUDGEMENT ABOUT YOU IS SO IMP.IN YOUR LIFE THAT IT JUST KILLS.SIMPLY REMEMBER ONE THING NO BODY KNOWS  ONE OTHER VERY WELL

.SOMETIMES PEOPLE DO SAY ONLY GOD KNOWS HOW HE OR SHE IS.ONLY GOD CAN PREDICT .EVERYHUMAN IS DIFFERENT ,LYING IN THE LAP OF MOTHER EARTH .PEOPLE HAS DIFFERENT WAYS OF EXPRESSING THINGS.DIFFERENT THOUGHT PROCESSES AS WELL. CONSIDERING SOMEBODY’SJUDGEMENT ABOUT YOU SO IMP THAT SOMETHIMES YOU DON’T PAY ATTENTION TOWARDS YOUR EATING STYLES.YOU ARE THINKING ALL THE TIME ABOUT THE PEOPLE AND THEIR CHOICES .

WHAT ABOUT YOUR CHOICES?WHAT ABOUT YOUR HAPPINESS/THAT IS UTMOST IMPORTANT.HOW CAN YOU FORGET YOUR LIFESTYLE.THE THINGS THAT YOU LIKE THE MOST THAT THINGS THAT YOU LOVE TO DO.IT CAN BE ANYTTHING.SEE ,WHEN YOU STOP DOING THINGS YOU LIKE AND START THINKING ALL THE TIME ABOUT THE THINGS YOU DON’T LIKE IT CAN BE YOUR PROFFESSION ,CRITICISERS,LOVABLE  PEOPLE TOO OR THE THINGS THAT YOU HAVE BEEN DOING CONSISTENTLY WITHOUT BREAKS,YOUR MIND STOPS EVOLVING AS YOU HAVE FILLED IT WITH IRRELEVENT THINGS,THAT’S WHY NATURE IS IMP.SPEND TIME WITH NATURE,YOU KNOW WHAT NATURE DOES INCLUDE YOU TOO.START SPENDING TIME FOR YOURSELF IN A NEW WAY .REFRESHING WAY.REJUVENATING YOURSELF ,GIVING SOME BREAK TO YOUR HEART,TAKING SOME FRESH JUICES,SPENDING TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO SOMEHOW UNDERSTANDS YOU.PLEASE TAKE A BREAK IF YOUR MIND NEEDS REST THAN DO REST FOR A WHILE AND START AGAIN.BREATHE AGAIN ,LAUGH AGAIN,AND BE WITH ZEST AND ZEAL AGAIN.

 

EXPECTATIONS! A big challenge or an empty box.

Hello friends, hola!  how are you all ?
                 we all go through this , the expectations are always undone ,unfulfilled or kills us from inside .so what you do you think  can be the reason that our expectations are not fulfilled or that results in relationship endings or frustration or lack of Trust issues and even anxiety and stress issues that we face on a daily basis. And accept it that it's been for years.

                   What happens is that, first we get connected with the people around us with whom our interest matches, with whom we get happiness and we are satisfied with them and then we do a lot of things for them because we feel happy with them so basically we do things for them out of  our happiness that is hidden inside our hearts but what happens when the situation is not right either on our side or on others one side .
 there comes the situations that are always changing and we do face these things that we are unable to justify the things, that we do to people who love us so much or we are unable to justify the things that people did to us that were un justified

               Firstly we need to understand that every human being and every human in this earth is different and has unique thought process .we cannot expect too much from anybody weather it is our precious projects or our loved ones or from strangers. So  many times I have seen that we expect too much from strangers ,yes we do, specially from our colleagues from our friends who are basically our known people but they are strangers too because they don't know too much about you and you don't not too much about them because you are not living with your colleagues and friends right.
             What happens is when we have a friendship with someone or we create something with that particular person some sort of relationship or some sort of good things that person can be your best friend your boyfriend your girlfriend, your husband,wife  your father whatever or a stranger, it can be any person . so we do a lot for them out of our happiness and then comes a day or comes a moment or comes a time that they are unable to do anything for us they are not doing the things according to our will but the question arises here.
      Are these people God's or are you a God ? I mean to say we need to accept that nobody is perfect and we need to accept somebody in in every possible condition because nobody can be according to your expectations every and each time of your life
                            It you get hurt easily with the fact that these people were not according to your will so these people have their lives too,  these people have the tensions and stress in their lives too and their too confront  different life situations .they  don't act accordingly as they are not Gods. how can they understand what is going inside your heart? how can they know what is going inside your mind when you don't even tell the things and just see and expect and get hurt right
So basically we all need to communicate with the people around us to get the things sorted but there  also comes confusion and conflict that sometimes these people don't have that much patience to listen to you so you need to have a particular time with the Peaceful mind and with  nice speech so that you can communicate your personal feelings and the problems can be sorted out secondly when we expect something from someone we cannot expect too much because they don't know what is going inside our minds and in our lives because that too have their own lives and tensions they might be frustratedin there  lives. there is a possibility that in their lives  there is some sort of problems., upset mind different moods mood disorders depressive things coming to their Minds something is not right according to them in their houses in their domestic areas in their private lives or public lives whatever so if you are not god how can you expect someone to become a God and finally I can conclude that when we have relationship with someone out of our happiness we do a lot of things for that person but how can we just reject that person on the basis of the fact that  it didn't do according to our Will, because they are not gods we need to understand the fact that what is going inside our hearts or in our minds is not visible to the person standing or sitting in front of you so we need to" see things as they are" and not see things as going inside your heart.
We need to understand the fact that life is an ocean of emotion and that is why people say that we do need practicality in our lives because we do not see things as they are when somebody is shouting in front of you or a person is ignoring you or a person is literally teasing you that doesn't mean that he has an intention to do that maybe it it is some  sort of Mind process at that particular moment because of their frustrations because of their anger because of the disappointments and unsatisfied life so we need to understand this particular thing that if we are not perfect then we cannot even expect the people standing or sitting in front of us to be perfect. Please accept the people as they are and not as they are in your minds and please do communicate with your lovable once or even if they are strangers communication is very important in life and finally please do not become God and don't overburden yourself with the Expectations of people because you are not got to at the end of the day please smile and be happy E and just enjoy the things you have just enjoy with the people you have in your life. Just forget about Expectations life is too short to think about the Expectations that was not fulfilled life is short and it is meant to be e happy to be satisfied with what you have and to accept the fact that this particular person is doing something because this particular person is right now, not in a very good face so just say that it's ok. If the person you really admire or a door is completely against you now and is terribly getting insane with you then you also need to understand that you need to to focus on the fact that if you are able to bear it then wear it if you are unable to wear it then don't expect too much from yourself too you need to go with the flow and please don't expect too much from yourself also just enjoy the present moment enjoy your current situation whatever it is is and be happy and remain so you also need to understand that you need to move on in life if the Expectations real in terms and the feedback for the result is Null then you also need to understand that you need to move on with the relationship of the person if you don't feel something positive with someone then you also need to put yourself aside from that particular person and be happy with your solitude or with the other people that adore you at least