WHAT HURTS YOU?

When things and your lovable person or people that you trust the most  don't act according to your wishes and desires, don't get hurt, acceptence is the key. Accept that things are like that.

Failure is not permanent, getting poor marks or any kind of breakup or inferior remarks of people don't define your success or failure. What is success? Success is to live in the present ,enjoy the present and stop thinking about past -future .see things as they are if someone has scolded you or cheated you or laughed at your weakness that doesnt mean your life has ended.

Accept that people are like that only they are not perfect too. Can you fulfill somebody's  all expectations .no right. Then don't expect unnecessary things from them they are not gods. How can they know what hurts you? Everybody in this word has their way of taking things and unique thought processes. How can they know that you were hurt from them or their actions? Are these people too imp, To think about? Why do we give so much imp to criticiser's or people that hate us?  Think about it!

 Accept that this person teases you cheated you or abused you or criticised you becaus he/ she is like that only .its their nature their upbringing. It can be someone going from a rough face of life and that person is not telling you but he or she is angry at you. Somebody is not perfect with you because everything is not perfect in their lives too. They are sad and disappointed. And finding ways to push their anger out by showing Ill behaviour to you. Accept and let it go. Stay positive be happy this is success in life. Dont ignore but maintain a little distance from the person who is hurting you. You will be happy.
 Things are not permanent. Everything is temporary. Today you fight tomorrow you laugh with the same. Today you cry because of failure tomorrow you forget what happened.

That means the things that are hurting you today tomorrow they have no meaning .suppose you have three years of bachelor degree you meet so many people. And think about somany according to their behaviour and be happy and sad for today now tell me. After thEsE 3 years someone will be married ,somebody will be doing some job AND Somebody business. Then at that time the hatredness or heaviness if heart or scoldings
Will it matter after 4 years. The answer will be no. Why wasting your emotions today. If someone is OKAY with you fine ,if someone or conditions are notFINE right now. Then say I accept. Its fine too. And be happy!